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| The Dream of the Planet [Part 2] |
Victim carries the blame, the guilt, and the shame.
Our childhood beliefs are based on a belief system that we never chose to believe. These beliefs
are so strong, that even years later when we are exposed to new concepts and try to make our
own decisions, we find that these beliefs still control our lives.
Breaking the rules in the Book of Law opens your emotional wounds. Even if the Book of Law is
wrong, it makes you feel safe. Our belief system is the Book of Laws that rules our personal
dream. All these laws exist in our mind, we believe them, and the Judge inside us bases
everything on these rules.
True justice is paying only once for each mistake. True injustice is paying more than once for
each mistake. The human is the only animal on earth that pays a thousand times for the same
mistake. Every tie we remember a mistake, we judge ourselves again, we are guilty gain, and
we punish ourselves again, and again, and again.
How many times do we make our spouse, our children, or our parents pay for the same
mistake?
The Judge in the mind is wrong because the belief system, the Book o Law, is wrong. Ninety-five
percent of the beliefs we have stored in our minds are nothing but lies, and we suffer because
believe all these lies.
Every human has his or her personal dream, and just like the society dream, it is often ruled by
fear. The same fears manifest in different ways for each person but we experience anger,
jealousy, hate, envy, and other negative emotions.
All of humanity is searching for truth, justice, and beauty. We don’t see the truth because we
are blind. What blinds us are all those false beliefs we have in our mind. We have the need to
be right and to make others wrong. Our beliefs set us up for suffering.
To be alive is the biggest fear humans have. Death is not the biggest fear we have; the biggest
fear is taking the risk to be alive – the risk to be alive and express what we really are. We have
learned to live our life trying to satisfy other people’s demands. We have learned to live by
other people’s points of view because of the fear f not being accepted and of not being good
enough for someone else.
During the process of domestication we create an image of how we should be in order to be
accepted by everybody. We create this image, but this image is not real. We are never going to
be perfect from this point of view.
Not being perfect, we reject ourselves. We are not good enough for ourselves because we don’t
fit with our own image of perfection. We feel false, frustrated, and dishonest. The result is that
we feel unauthentic and wear social masks to keep others from noticing this. We are so afraid
that somebody else will notice that we are not what we pretend o be. We judge others
according tour image of perfection as well, and they naturally fall short of our expectations.
Humans punish themselves endlessly for not being what they believe they should be. Nobody
ever abusesus more than we abuse ourselves, and it is the Judge, the Victim, and the belief
systems that make us do this.
We have the need o be accepted and loved by others, but we cannot accept and love ourselves.
The more self-love we have, the less we will experience selfabuse. Selfabuse comes from self-rejection, and self-rejection comes from having an image of what it means to be perfect and
never measuring up to that ideal.
There are thousands of agreements you have made with yourself, with other people, with your
dream of life, with God, with society, with your parents, with your spouse, with your children.
But the most important agreements are the ones you made with yourself. In these agreements
you tell yourself who you are, what you feel, what you believe, and how to behave.
If you want to life a life of joy and fulfillment, you have to find the courage to break those
agreements that are fear-based and claim your personal power. Our personal power is
dissipated by all the agreements we have created, and the result is that we feel powerless.
If we can see it is our agreements, which rule our life, and we don’t like the dream of our life, w
need to change the agreements. When we are finally ready to change our agreements, there
are four very powerful agreements that will help us break those agreements that come from
fear and deplete our energy.
If you adopt these four new agreements, they will create enough personal power or you to
change the entire system of your old agreements.
If you can begin to live your life with these agreements, the transformation in your life will be
amazing.
